Hi Fifi,
My name is Anne, 51 years old married with two lads 19 and 20, was diagnosed May 2010.
Like you at the beginning it is so hard to get your head around it, but I joined this site almost immediately and the help and advise was brilliant, suddenly I didn't feel alone anymore, the people on this site have been there, done it and got the t-shirt.
I would say the MTX kicked in after approx 7 weeks for me and apart from a few blips along the way has been fantastic, long may it continue, although I know I shall be straight on this site if it stops working, and ask for advice before I visit the rhummy.
I currently take 25mg weekly. Please try and stay positive, because there is light at the end of the tunnel.
Regards Anne x